Wednesday, 2 November 2016



 I am an impenetrable emotion that circumscribes numerous divergent kinds of sentiments that fluctuates
 from trepidation of abandonment to rage and I am an affliction that authorizes an immature mind to 
frequently misinterpret one for the other, and the conjecture that the greater love established, the greater jealousy comes into existence. Love and jealousy are both irreconcilable.
I am also known as a neurotic insecurity that dismantles every good thing in regards to disparage individuals and demolish individual's contentment.

Sunday, 3 April 2016

Intimidation is the sincerest form of flattery


For every level there's a devil, so arise and fight for what belongs to you. Don't be intimidated by anything or anyone.

Focus on your success,your life as when you mind your business you can do whatever you want, you will know your worth and stress less .

Wear your flaws like an armor, and don't be afraid to show them to the world, because when you do, nothing will ever get to you.

If i can tock this look you can also rock it .
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Fashion fades - style is eternal." ~ Yves Saint Laurent

Monday, 28 March 2016

Simplicity Meets Elegance

Casual day !! Grey my new black !.

I was never into hoddies until i meet Slazenger fleece Hoody.  For my casual look i paired it with a High waisted jeggings from river-island.  I loved this outfit as it was fun , confortable and even though is simple you can still slay it . 
I also want to say never be afriad to move on or try new things in life ... stay focus on your goals and be positive as a goal without a plan is just a wish.
Try the look and style it your way , as is good to be different !! 
Still next time. Stay blessed and come again 😘.
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. ~ 

Clare Boothe Luce . 


Saturday, 26 March 2016

Let Go and Walk Away

Why you holding on?!

I use to pray for a change, for me to see a sunny day but nothing good was coming my way for so long  and i needed someone to understand
the place your heart was in..

All i wanted was for me to dream again and have people to believe in me. Who ever thought my breakthrough’s was on its ways. Who ever thought i had so much to live for, who ever thought i would be where i am now ... imagine if i gave up and didnt hold on at that difficult season, imagine if i didnt keep remembering what i prayed for.... if i gave up i would have lost good things.

  All i want to say is walk away from things that dont bring the best in you. Walk away from things that dont make you shine , things that depresses or stress you. Walk away from negative thinkers.... just walk away from from things that are not adding value to your life.
I know its hard to let go but sometimes the hardest part is you learning to start over. 
Just Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future and live your life to the fullest as you only have one chance to live so cherish the gift of life and make it Count !!!

Some birds are not meant to be caged, that's all. Their feathers are too bright, their songs too sweet and wild. So you let them go, or when you open the cage to feed them they somehow fly out past you. And the part of you that knows it was wrong to imprison them in the first place rejoices, but still, the place where you live is that much more drab and empty for their departure. ~Stephen King. 
Still Next time
keep staying blessed !!!!

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Friday, 25 March 2016

The Girl No One Noticed

Once upon a time , there lived a young beautiful lady called Jeka , she was as quiet as a mouse; she was the girl no one noticed.

Due to the fact that she had nothing, she was seen as worthless, she was made to feel like a no body until she found God now she shows up in life like she has everything, she laughs, shes knows her worth as princess are not cheap and most definetly a child of God is not cheap either.

  She now knows that at the end of the day even though shes not perfect ,  shes  a good woman and her heart is pure and loves hard woth everything that she's got and for the reason alone she knows shed worthy it everything no matter what people say she will forever be worth it and she wont settle for less and refuse to be treated anything less than the queen that she is .
 Dont forget "every woman is a queen, and we all have different things to offer "~ Queen Latifah.


Love is not about losing or wining!

Love is not about losing or wining!. Allow your self- esteem to grow and learn to enjoy life more and don’t forget only ignorant individuals walk away from greater things!!.

Live Life, be happy and know that God loves you!. Cry all the tears you need to cry and stop living in your shadows. There are greater things ahead.

Also dont forget those who do not weep, do not see!! – Victor Hugo.

Still next time! Stay bless you all.


Thursday, 24 March 2016

As For The Lady In White...

Fascination, time to be comfortable in your skin, because you are beautiful! 
I have always loved long dresses as they bring a multitude of shins and not only that but they accentuate what I look like and makes me stand out.  

I love this dress as it can fit anyone one no matter the size and it brings out every beatiful curve you have, like You Will be surprised!

It comes in different colour so you can take your pick but I choose white as white represent peace andvictory;  and that’s what I want to achieve this year.  

This dress was not expensive, so anybody can afford it and look great.Time to be the lady in White get the 
Dress, Jacket & Purse Here

Remember it doesn’t matter how expensive it is as it’s not what you wear, but how you wear it !
Stay Blessed and Live Courageously!
Till next time!
''Wearing the correct dress for an occasion is a matter of good manners'' 
– Loretta Young


Wednesday, 23 March 2016

Sweetness drops

As a lady we must cherish our lips as Sweetness drops falls from our lips whiles  honey and milk are under your tongue. We need to learn to control our lips and instead of cursing individuals with our lips we need to learn to bless with our lips. 
"A kiss is a secret which takes the lips for the ear.~"Edmond Rostand.


Grow Grow Grow !!!

Who doesn't want t to have that nice long wind blowing hair (we all have probably been there), and what best way to acomplish that then relaxing my hair.

 You are beautiful inside and out, wether you have kinki, curly or wavey hair and no matter what lenght, You Are Beautiful!

Onto the topic of natural hair.
Having natural hair is allowing your hair to be in it's natural state without adding any chemicals, which can cause your hair to grow weaker, dryer and become damaged if not taken care of correctly. That is one of the main reasons why I went natural.
Natural hair does not mean you cant have nice long stright hair, or a nice afro.
It simply means you are allowing your hair to do it's own thing!
However, taking care of natural hair, is not easy,  it’s hard, stressful and time consumming. The thought of that alone can discourage many people.
I have started the natural hair journey many times! But since mid last year I have taken the bull by the horn and stuck to it (YAY).
When I started my natural journey I didn’t do ''The Big Chop'', no no no,  I decided to take the route of ''Transitioning '' my hair. The difference between both is that  ''The Big Chop''  is cutting all the relaxed and damaged parts of your hair away, whereas ''Transitioning'' you allows your hair to grow out all the relaxed hair, which will leave you with longer your natural hair. Transitioning does take a while, so be patient!
I have been using the Palmer's hair product line, it is so good and super affordable (list below)
Coconut oil shampoo - it replenishes moisture and adds shine
Coconut oil conditioner -it repairs dry and damage hair
Coconut oil Hair Milk -nourishes hair and tames frizz.
Coconut oil Hair Polisher -repairs dry, damage hair and glosses, smoothest, nourishes the hair
Using EDIPURE HAIR AND SCALP ANTI DANDRUFF SHAMPOO and  ARGON OIL as scalp treatment, is really good for dry scalp. As argan oil contains vitamin E and antioxidants, which allows your hair to grow stronger and helps boost hair cell growth. 

Small secrete - I relax my hair once a year, helps my hair to grow.
Little things you could also do:
Drink a lot of water
Get the right brushes to comb (detangle) your hair (Denman D90 Tangle Tamer)
Keep you hair moisturised
Looking after your hair in the moring and at night - damp with warm water mixed with the argan oil and wrapping it with a silk scarf
Putting your hair in a protective style - e.g braids, crotchet braids, cornrow and wearing a wig even weave
Reduce the amount of heat used on your hair - it can lead to damaged ends
  There are so many products, that you can try as what works for me might not work for you.

On that note
Stay Blessed and Live Courageously. Until next time.
''Don’t forget you’re not my hair, you are not this skin but you are a soul that lives within”
India Arie.

2015 hair length

2016 hair length



Every woman is beatutiful with or without make up, There's a saying that says A beauty of a woman is not in a facial apperance but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. As ladies our  beauty grows with time. As time passes  the  beauty of a woman will be seen from in her eyes, as that's the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.  Women intend to see beauty in their fellow women but can't see it in themselves. Everything in this world is made with beauty , everything has beauty not everyone sees it , everyone has different taste, just because you might not be someones cup of tea dont mean your not beautiful... you are beautiful , dont forget beauty is in the hands of the beholder and also the spend time with yourself to find the beautiest in you as you are beautiful no matter what individual's say. Be  confident and proud of who you . So wear lipstick, smile and the next time you are counting beautiful things, dont forget to count yourself as one of then as beauty is within. Dont let words and things define you. Your worth it 😚😘..  

Miss Jeka 
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Tuesday, 22 March 2016

Miss Sophisticated

All my life i dress in a sophisticated and classy way. As  I love to dress in a way I know my mother, future husband to be or people that look up to me wouldn't be embarrassed to see me.
There are many many Sophisticated people in this world ....Joyce Meyer said many sophisticated, Intelligent people lack wisdom and common sense. 
Dont be the Sophisticated ones that lack wisdom . 

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